Frequently Asked Questions

Powerful chemicals and feel-good hormones are released when a person has an orgasm which is popularly known as post-orgasmic bliss. The immense pleasure and satisfaction, that sex and orgasm provide, make them fantastic incentives. A person is highly motivated when their opportunity to have sex or masturbate gets taken away until they reach a target.  For people who are unable to follow a strict regimen, having a reward and punishment plan in place yields great results. 

After I get to know your current physical and health state, I will set a goal for you. Chastity can be very effective in weight loss and physical fitness. The longer you have to abstain, the more aroused you will be. This will motivate you to work harder at your goal. Your reward can be an orgasm on successful  completion of your goals. Your punishment can be continuation of orgasm denial, but for some people, orgasm denial itself is not a sufficient  punishment. Tease and denial, plugs, clamps, icy hot, and spanking are a few which can assist in achieving the level of motivation required.

Well this depends on your motivation and time you focus on achieving your goals. Some goals can be achieved in a week or as long as a month.  I have found that when a period of time has gone by I have a very willing client who will do everything in their power to meet my demands and get released.

Most people are incentive driven and when we incorporate chastity into the mix it becomes much more exciting for the person. Not only that, but your Domme/Dom gets a very willing and dedicated submissive that will be in better shape and have more endurance, and better able to meet their demands.

I prefer my clients have a partner that is on board with their goals and is able to communicate with me, but I will consider singles on a case by case basis.

Yes of course.  I have many clients that have never heard of chastity.  I have just found chastity brings a certain intensity and focus on achieving goals, but I will find other ways to motivate you. 

No I'm not a Domme, but I'm very dominant in some aspects of my life, especially training clients. I will be very demanding and strict, but at the same time supportive, because we both have the same goal of improving your health and well being.